Silence

I read somewhere recently that the reason why people shout is because they are of a certain distance and the other person cant hear you so you want to make yourself heard by shouting.
When two people are near to each other, all they need to do is talk and the other can hear. When they are at an even closer distance, a whisper is all it takes to be heard.
So it is for two people in love. Why do we shout when we are angry or upset at the other person? It is coz our hearts have been distanced and we want the other person to hear us or our side. When the hearts of two people are close to each other, we whisper words of love etc and there's no need to shout. And when their hearts are even closer, they can be so close that there is no need even for words to be said for them to understand each other.
So when facing a problem, I will try my best not to shout, because it means that my heart has been distanced from yours and that's exactly what I do not want. I don't want my anger to be affecting our hearts nor distance myself from you.
I may be angry or upset but in my heart I know I always love you.