lessons

yays my 500th post! :D

just a quick summary of what i've learnt from them since 15. all these shaped me to what i am today, how i deal with us and my expectations.

#1
puppy love is just what it is, puppy love.

#2
never stay with a guy who just wants 'fun'.
if at first, there's no chemistry, there never will be, no matter how cool he is.

#3
age is not a factor when you are old.
but it is now. and will be, until you're 50.
it takes courage and much love to be willing to wait while withstanding negative comments.

#4
save for the future, plan for the future.
try not to suffer and torture yourself while doing so.
sometimes, money CAN buy happiness.
first ask yourself if the reason for anger is reasonable before bringing it up.

#5
never judge a book by its cover.
a nice person may turn out to be an asshole.
money may buy happiness, but not my love. especially not your parents' money.
if he can't decide well now, don't expect him to be a good father.
you'd probably just end up the 'father', and he, the mother.

i'm still learning every day but i hope that's all i will ever add to this list.


was extremely disappointed that his reservist clashed with our phantom of the opera date(and date) haha. plus it was already booked during the early bird period and we had pretty good seats. thank God they extended the show days and we can still have good seats! yay! just that there's no more early bird discount. thank you binksy for offering to share the cost and give our tickets to my parents for free. my mother was really happy when she heard it. i'm really thankful that the two of them can go out together like how they did when they were dating (mummy told me that she watched it before and loved it). thank you dearrr ((:

on another note, today i was reminded of a portion of my past, of having to scrimp and save every single cent, eating the cheapest meals and telling myself that all these little savings now will add up in the future.
i saw her worry that the meal might be too expensive. as much as i thought of paying(so i could have my black canyon), i am not a charitable organization and i do not simply pay for anybody out of pity. i treat, out of appreciation, out of love, out of joy etc but not out of pity.